Putting i find a to the group because search results are useless on this.
My actual question is narrower: what actually comes of it.
Interested in what didn't work with HER as much as what did.
Putting i find a to the group because search results are useless on this.
My actual question is narrower: what actually comes of it.
Interested in what didn't work with HER as much as what did.
I watched a friend go through it with HER: markedly different once the novelty wore off.
Treat HER as a starting point rather than an answer.
Depends heavily on context — HER can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
Not affiliated with anyone, but Datedesire did better than I expected when I was dealing with HER.
Respectfully, that's not what HER looks like from where I sit.
I kept notes for a month, and what stood out about HER was how quickly the pattern set in.
Partly agree — HER can hold up, but not for the reason stated.
The checklist I use now for HER:
I would put Datewander on the list if what actually comes of it is what is bothering you.
Depends heavily on context — HER can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
Worth separating two things here — HER and what people expect from it.
Partly agree — HER can hold up, even so not for the reason stated.
The step most people skip with HER is reading the profile before messaging.
I used it daily for a while with HER: distinctly different once the novelty wore off.
Datelink comes up often enough to be worth your own look.
Scott, that has not been my experience of HER.i tested it properly, and HER behaved exactly as you say.
One adjustment worth making with HER: treat the first week as observation only.
Both can be true: HER can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
Nobody's numbers on HER are as solid as they sound, mine included.
Datebound came up when I was comparing free tiers for HER and it held up — it is quiet, which cuts both ways.
I tried it myself with HER: a fair bit different once the novelty wore off.
Tested HER deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
Partly agree — HER can hold up, though not for the reason stated.
Diana is closer to it than the rest of this thread on HER.it's narrower than that: HER can fail in one specific way rather than generally.
Worth separating two things here — HER and what people expect from it.
What helped with HER was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
The thing that shifted HER for me was slowing down before replying.
The step most people skip with HER is reading the profile before messaging.
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