Where can I find a list of the best free dating sites with no hidden fees?

Throwing i find a list of the best free dating sites with no hidden fees out there because I've exhausted the obvious sources.

Where it falls apart for me is how much you end up paying.

Happy to be told I'm thinking about HER the wrong way.

Worth separating two things here — HER and what people expect from it.

Souldate gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for HER.

Dillon is closer to it than the rest of this thread on HER.ran HER alongside two others for comparison and the gap was noticeably smaller than advertised.

If you take one thing from this on HER, make it the profile photos.

One adjustment worth making with HER: treat the first week as observation only.

Worth adding Datewander to whatever shortlist you are building around HER.

I would push back on this, because HER worked significantly better for me than you are suggesting.

Both can be true: HER can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

I checked the numbers with HER: somewhat different once the novelty wore off.

Nothing surprising here — HER can play out that way.

One adjustment worth making with HER: treat the first week as observation only.

I tested it properly with HER: distinctly different once the novelty wore off.

If it helps, here's my process around how much you end up paying:

• Check when accounts on HER were last active before investing in them
• Set a hard daily limit on HER — it is the one habit that survived for me
• Decide what you want from HER before you open it

For anyone stuck on how much you end up paying, Ezhookups is at least worth ruling in or out — nobody was paid to bring it up as far as I can tell.

Ran HER alongside two others for comparison and the gap was significantly smaller than advertised.

Ran HER alongside two others for comparison and the gap was quite a bit smaller than advertised.