What's the best strategy for standing out on dirty gay chat roulette?

Wanted to open a thread on 's the best strategy for standing out on dirty gay chat roulette because the coverage elsewhere is shallow.

The sticking point for me is what actually gets responded to, not the surface features.

Anyone who has actually tested strategy standing out — what did you find?

Ran strategy standing out alongside two others for comparison and the gap was measurably smaller than advertised.

The step most people skip with strategy standing out is reading the profile before messaging.

If you want something outside the big five for strategy standing out, Datingfly keeps appearing in these comparisons.

AnnaK, that has not been my experience of strategy standing out.nothing surprising here — strategy standing out can play out that way.

The step most people skip with strategy standing out is reading the profile before messaging.

Whatever you decide about strategy standing out, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

AnnaK, that has not been my experience of strategy standing out.this overstates the problem with strategy standing out, I think.

Happy to revisit strategy standing out if someone has newer experience.

What helped with strategy standing out was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

Worth adding Datebound to whatever shortlist you are building around strategy standing out.

I read Justin's reply on strategy standing out differently.results on strategy standing out improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

Either way, strategy standing out is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

What helped with strategy standing out was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

Three things that changed what actually gets responded to for me:

• Treat your first week with strategy standing out as reconnaissance rather than outreach
• Assume strategy standing out is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
• Rewrite your strategy standing out profile once you have seen how others there present themselves

I rotated through a few while working on strategy standing out and Datewander had the least friction on the free tier.

Worth noting how much of what's written about strategy standing out is promotional.

The step most people skip with strategy standing out is reading the profile before messaging.

If you take one thing from this on strategy standing out, make it the profile photos.

Worth adding Datenest to whatever shortlist you are building around strategy standing out.