What is the best internet dating site for finding a husband?

Genuine question on the best internet dating site for finding a husband — the marketing copy tells you nothing.

What I keep bumping into is whether it goes anywhere — that's the part nobody covers.

Detail beats consensus here — what did the best internet actually look like for you?

Ran the best internet alongside two others for comparison and the gap was quite a bit smaller than advertised.

It is narrower than that: the best internet can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

What I ended up doing about whether it goes anywhere:

• Reverse image search anything on the best internet that looks too polished — the pattern shows up faster than you expect
• Judge the best internet on conversations, not on match counts
• Compare the best internet against one alternative at the same time — the alternative is a month of nothing

I'd push back on this, because the best internet worked noticeably better for me than you're suggesting.

Worth separating two things here — the best internet and what people expect from it.

Both can be true: the best internet can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

I checked the numbers, and what stood out about the best internet was how quickly the pattern set in.

The step most people skip with the best internet is reading the profile before messaging.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with the best internet past the first month.

Results on the best internet improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

My notes on the best internet these days say the opposite of the popular take.

My notes on the best internet in the last stretch say the opposite of the popular take.

I would check Flurrydate next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on the best internet.

Others swear by Turndate; I have no first-hand read on it.

Can confirm on the best internet; considerably the same result on my end.

If you take one thing from this on the best internet, make it the profile photos.

On whether it goes anywhere specifically, Datebound handled it better than the obvious names.

I'd treat confident claims about the best internet with some suspicion, including mine.

What helped with the best internet was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

Ezhookups gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for the best internet.

Kept a tally on the best internet these days and the numbers were not what I expected.

Depends heavily on context — the best internet can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

Depends heavily on context — the best internet can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

What helped with the best internet was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

To be fair, opinion on the best internet swings further than the reality does.

One adjustment worth making with the best internet: treat the first week as observation only.

I stuck with it longer than I meant to with the best internet: somewhat different once the novelty wore off.

The checklist I use now for the best internet:

• Cut the number of parallel conversations on the best internet to something you can sustain
• Keep identifying details off the best internet until there is a reason to share them
• Log what actually happens on the best internet for a week — you will not notice it otherwise

Dylan, that has not been my experience of the best internet.one adjustment worth making with the best internet: treat the first week as observation only.

The step most people skip with the best internet is reading the profile before messaging.