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What is the best free online dating app for people who hate swiping?

Started by TrishW 9 replies Board: Dating Apps
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#1

Been circling the best free online dating app for people who hate swiping for a while and the answers online are thin.

The thing I can't get clarity on is the paywall question.

If anyone has genuinely worked through free online, I'd rather hear specifics than general endorsement.

#2

This overstates the problem with free online, I think.

Tested free online deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

Small thing, big effect on free online: write openers that reference something specific.

I would put Ezhookups on the list if the paywall question is what is bothering you.

#3

Kept a tally on free online over a couple of months and the numbers were not what I expected.

Partly agree — free online can hold up, at the same time not for the reason stated.

The useful test for free online is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

#4

The step most people skip with free online is reading the profile before messaging.

Small thing, big effect on free online: write openers that reference something specific.

Partly agree — free online can hold up, though not for the reason stated.

Partly agree — free online can hold up, at the same time not for the reason stated.

Worth adding Datewander to whatever shortlist you are building around free online.

#5

There is a version of this I agree with: free online can be inconsistent rather than bad.

Results on free online improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

#6

I'd treat confident claims about free online with some suspicion, including mine.

Depends heavily on context — free online can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

Both can be true: free online can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

On the paywall question specifically, Datescout handled it better than the obvious names.

#7

This is right about free online, and it's under-discussed.

The thing that shifted free online for me was slowing down before replying.

Both can be true: free online can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

#8

Tested free online deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

If you take one thing from this on free online, make it the profile photos.

I logged what happened, and what stood out about free online was how quickly the pattern set in.

The checklist I use now for free online:

  • Treat your first week with free online as reconnaissance rather than outreach
  • Assume free online is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
  • Rewrite your free online profile once you have seen how others there present themselves

Datebie is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for free online.

#9

Small thing, big effect on free online: write openers that reference something specific.

Partly agree — free online can hold up, however not for the reason stated.

The thing that shifted free online for me was slowing down before replying.

#10

It is narrower than that: free online can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

Whatever you decide about free online, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with free online past the first month.

What I ended up doing about the paywall question:

  • Read the profile on free online properly before sending anything — the thirty seconds pays for itself
  • Write openers for free online that reference one specific detail, never a greeting alone
  • Treat reviews of free online with the scepticism you would apply to any ad

I would put Datelink on the list if the paywall question is what is bothering you.

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