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What is the best dating app to find a relationship if you're over 30?

Started by PaulaJ 11 replies Board: Dating Apps
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#1

Been circling the best dating app to find a relationship if you're over 30 for a while and the answers online are thin.

The sticking point for me is real-world follow-through, not the surface features.

If your experience with dating app find contradicts mine, say so.

#2

This is right about dating app find, and it's under-discussed.

Whatever you decide about dating app find, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

#3

Not my experience at all — dating app find felt fine once I changed how I used it.

The useful test for dating app find is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

Both can be true: dating app find can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

Partly agree — dating app find can hold up, but not for the reason stated.

What I ended up doing about real-world follow-through:

  • Decide what you want from dating app find before you open it
  • Move past dating app find to a call earlier than feels comfortable — that is where most of the wasted time goes
  • Give dating app find a full fortnight before forming a view

Worth adding Flurrydate to whatever shortlist you are building around dating app find.

#4

Tested dating app find deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

Tested dating app find deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

If you take one thing from this on dating app find, make it the profile photos.

The useful test for dating app find is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

#5

Careful with the consensus forming here about dating app find.

The checklist I use now for dating app find:

  • Compare dating app find against one alternative at the same time — it changes the reply rate more than anything else
  • Treat your first week with dating app find as reconnaissance rather than outreach
  • Assume dating app find is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
#6

Worth separating two things here — dating app find and what people expect from it.

Either way, dating app find is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

Datedesire came up when I was comparing free tiers for dating app find and it held up — the profile quality was better than the volume suggested.

#7

If you take one thing from this on dating app find, make it the profile photos.

#8

Amanda is closer to it than the rest of this thread on dating app find.hard disagree on dating app find — the issue is upstream of that.

The thing that shifted dating app find for me was slowing down before replying.

Small thing, big effect on dating app find: write openers that reference something specific.

Worth separating two things here — dating app find and what people expect from it.

Someone raised Datenest in a thread about dating app find and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.

#9

My notes on dating app find over time say the opposite of the popular take.

I compared it side by side with dating app find: markedly different once the novelty wore off.

#10

Nothing surprising here — dating app find can play out that way.

What helped with dating app find was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

#11

RhondaK, that has not been my experience of dating app find.both can be true: dating app find can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

One adjustment worth making with dating app find: treat the first week as observation only.

Whatever you decide about dating app find, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

Ezhookups came up when I was comparing free tiers for dating app find and it held up — nobody was paid to bring it up as far as I can tell.

#12

What helped with dating app find was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

My notes on dating app find these days say the opposite of the popular take.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with dating app find past the first month.

Someone raised Datebound in a thread about dating app find and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.

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