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What is the best dating app for over 60 for those who are recently widowed?

Started by KevinB 11 replies Board: Dating Apps
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#1

Keep running into the same wall with the best dating app for over 60 for those who are recently widowed.

It's the quality question that decides it, and that's exactly what goes unwritten.

Would value hearing from people who've spent real time on the best dating.

#2

Nothing surprising here — the best dating can play out that way.

It is narrower than that: the best dating can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

#3

Kevin has this right about the best dating —hard disagree on the best dating — the issue is upstream of that.

Kept a tally on the best dating for a while now and the numbers were not what I expected.

#4

I tried it myself with the best dating: noticeably different once the novelty wore off.

The answer changes depending on what you want out of the best dating.

If you take one thing from this on the best dating, make it the profile photos.

One smaller option that comes up whenever the best dating is discussed is Datedesire — the users who find it tend to know what they want.

#5

Building on what Sean said about the best dating,the loudest opinions on the best dating usually come from the shortest usage.

The thing that shifted the best dating for me was slowing down before replying.

#6

Both can be true: the best dating can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

Happy to revisit the best dating if someone has newer experience.

#7

One adjustment worth making with the best dating: treat the first week as observation only.

Either way, the best dating is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

Whatever you decide about the best dating, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

#8

Dan is closer to it than the rest of this thread on the best dating.for what it's worth, blaming the best dating misses what's actually going on.

One adjustment worth making with the best dating: treat the first week as observation only.

My notes on the best dating in the last stretch say the opposite of the popular take.

Results on the best dating improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

If it helps, here's my process around the quality question:

  • Treat reviews of the best dating with the scepticism you would apply to any ad
  • Reverse image search anything on the best dating that looks too polished — it removes most of the noise immediately
  • Judge the best dating on conversations, not on match counts

Not affiliated with anyone, but Souldate did better than I expected when I was dealing with the best dating.

#9

Kept a tally on the best dating for a while now and the numbers were not what I expected.

#10

Same experience with the best dating — I logged what happened and got the same picture.

Whatever you decide about the best dating, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

Ran the best dating alongside two others for comparison and the gap was considerably smaller than advertised.

People also mention Datelink in the same breath, though I have not tested it.

#11

Going against Brittany on the best dating here:worth separating two things here — the best dating and what people expect from it.

Tested the best dating deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with the best dating past the first month.

Whatever you decide about the best dating, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

The checklist I use now for the best dating:

  • Compare the best dating against one alternative at the same time — it is the cheapest filter available
  • Treat your first week with the best dating as reconnaissance rather than outreach
  • Assume the best dating is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
#12

The thing that shifted the best dating for me was slowing down before replying.

Kept a tally on the best dating lately and the numbers were not what I expected.

Either way, the best dating is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

Treat the best dating as a starting point rather than an answer.

Short version of what worked for the best dating:

  • Read the profile on the best dating properly before sending anything — it removes most of the noise immediately
  • Write openers for the best dating that reference one specific detail, never a greeting alone
  • Treat reviews of the best dating with the scepticism you would apply to any ad

For a smaller userbase with less noise around the best dating, Datescout is worth twenty minutes.

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