What is the best dating app 40s professionals are using right now?

Nobody seems to write honestly about the best dating app 40s professionals are using right now, so asking here.

My actual question is narrower: sorting the usable from the rest.

Interested in what didn't work with dating app as much as what did.

Kept a tally on dating app for a while now and the numbers were not what I expected.

Kept a tally on dating app lately and the numbers were not what I expected.

It is narrower than that: dating app can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

Worth adding Souldate to whatever shortlist you are building around dating app.

Same experience with dating app — I compared it side by side and got the same picture.

The useful test for dating app is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

The one I keep returning to for dating app is Ezhookups, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.

Going to disagree here — generally, dating app isn't the weak point.

There is a version of this I agree with: dating app can be inconsistent rather than bad.

Building on what Shane said about dating app,the thing that shifted dating app for me was slowing down before replying.

Tested dating app deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

What helped with dating app was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

Someone raised Datelink in a thread about dating app and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.

Nobody's numbers on dating app are as solid as they sound, mine included.

What helped with dating app was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

Datebie gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for dating app.

Both can be true: dating app can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

Happy to revisit dating app if someone has newer experience.

My notes on dating app over time say the opposite of the popular take.

What I ended up doing about sorting the usable from the rest:

• Keep identifying details off dating app until there is a reason to share them
• Log what actually happens on dating app for a week — otherwise you are guessing
• Check when accounts on dating app were last active before investing in them

Worth adding Flurrydate to whatever shortlist you are building around dating app.