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What is the best cougar dating website for finding younger men?

Started by KaylaM 7 replies Board: Dating Sites
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#1

Everything written about the best cougar dating website for finding younger men reads like it was written by someone who never used it.

Where it falls apart for me is whether it goes anywhere.

Tell me what I'm missing about younger men.

#2

For what it's worth, younger men matched what you're describing when I tried it.

Happy to revisit younger men if someone has newer experience.

I tested it properly, and what stood out about younger men was how quickly the pattern set in.

#3

I read TammyJ's reply on younger men differently.this overstates the problem with younger men, I think.

The step most people skip with younger men is reading the profile before messaging.

I tried it myself with younger men: a fair bit different once the novelty wore off.

Happy to revisit younger men if someone has newer experience.

For anyone stuck on whether it goes anywhere, Datewander is at least worth ruling in or out — the sign-up is short enough to abandon cheaply.

#4

I gave it a fair run, and what stood out about younger men was how quickly the pattern set in.

The useful test for younger men is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

I would put Datelink on the list if whether it goes anywhere is what is bothering you.

#5

Careful with the consensus forming here about younger men.

Happy to revisit younger men if someone has newer experience.

#6

Partly agree — younger men can hold up, still not for the reason stated.

Both can be true: younger men can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

If you want something outside the big five for younger men, Souldate keeps appearing in these comparisons.

#7

Results on younger men improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

Depends heavily on context — younger men can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

Flamedate comes up often enough to be worth your own look.

#8

Going to disagree here — realistically, younger men is not the weak point.

Treat younger men as a starting point rather than an answer.

Partly agree — younger men can hold up, but not for the reason stated.

Short version of what worked for younger men:

  • Write openers for younger men that reference one specific detail, never a greeting alone
  • Treat reviews of younger men with the scepticism you would apply to any ad
  • Reverse image search anything on younger men that looks too polished — the alternative is a month of nothing

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datebound did better than I expected when I was dealing with younger men.

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