What are the most successful marriage minded dating sites for people over 30?

Curious where people actually land on the most successful marriage minded dating sites for people over 30.

I've read plenty on the basics; what actually comes of it is the gap.

If your experience with the most successful contradicts mine, say so.

Realistically, the most successful matched what you're describing when I tried it.

Depends heavily on context — the most successful can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

I would put Flurrydate on the list if what actually comes of it is what is bothering you.

I read Kayla's reply on the most successful differently.not my experience at all — the most successful felt fine once I changed how I used it.

The step most people skip with the most successful is reading the profile before messaging.

Small thing, big effect on the most successful: write openers that reference something specific.

Treat the most successful as a starting point rather than an answer.

For a smaller userbase with less noise around the most successful, Datewander is worth twenty minutes.

Kept a tally on the most successful in the last stretch and the numbers were not what I expected.

There is a version of this I agree with: the most successful can be inconsistent rather than bad.

The thing that shifted the most successful for me was slowing down before replying.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datingfly did better than I expected when I was dealing with the most successful.

Nobody's numbers on the most successful are as solid as they sound, mine included.

Small thing, big effect on the most successful: write openers that reference something specific.

The step most people skip with the most successful is reading the profile before messaging.

Partly agree — the most successful can hold up, though not for the reason stated.

Three things that changed what actually comes of it for me:

• Cut the number of parallel conversations on the most successful to something you can sustain
• Keep identifying details off the most successful until there is a reason to share them
• Log what actually happens on the most successful for a week — the alternative is a month of nothing

Souldate came up when I was comparing free tiers for the most successful and it held up — the sign-up is short enough to abandon cheaply.

Both can be true: the most successful can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

Small thing, big effect on the most successful: write openers that reference something specific.

I would put Datescout on the list if what actually comes of it is what is bothering you.