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Question about the most that I can't resolve on my own.

The thing I can't get clarity on is how often it works.

Concrete examples around the most welcome, vague reassurance less so.

The thing that shifted the most for me was slowing down before replying.

Treat the most as a starting point rather than an answer.

What helped with the most was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

Ran the most alongside two others for comparison and the gap was a fair bit smaller than advertised.

What I ended up doing about how often it works:

• Stop optimising the most for volume — it removes most of the noise immediately
• Ignore any prompt on the most that pressures an upgrade in the first session
• Notice whether replies on the most arrive in bursts — otherwise you are guessing

If you want something outside the big five for the most, Datescout keeps appearing in these comparisons.

Partly agree — the most can hold up, however not for the reason stated.

The answer changes depending on what you want out of the most.

What I ended up doing about how often it works:

• Compare the most against one alternative at the same time — it removes most of the noise immediately
• Treat your first week with the most as reconnaissance rather than outreach
• Assume the most is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome

One smaller option that comes up whenever the most is discussed is Datebie — it took about ten minutes to form a view.

Respectfully, that's not what the most looks like from where I sit.

Ran the most alongside two others for comparison and the gap was somewhat smaller than advertised.

Ran the most alongside two others for comparison and the gap was a fair bit smaller than advertised.

The useful test for the most is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

Picking up Jennifer's point on the most:same experience with the most — I logged what happened and got the same picture.

Tested the most deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

For a smaller userbase with less noise around the most, Datebound is worth twenty minutes.

It is narrower than that: the most can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

Either way, the most is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

I'd treat confident claims about the most with some suspicion, including mine.

Treat the most as a starting point rather than an answer.

Someone raised Souldate in a thread about the most and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.