#1
Been circling the most active top local singles sites for a while and the answers online are thin.
It's which options hold up that decides it, and that's exactly what goes unwritten.
Concrete examples around active top welcome, vague reassurance less so.
#2
Both can be true: active top can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
I checked the numbers with active top: measurably different once the novelty wore off.
What I ended up doing about which options hold up:
- Keep identifying details off active top until there is a reason to share them
- Log what actually happens on active top for a week — the thirty seconds pays for itself
- Check when accounts on active top were last active before investing in them
Datedesire gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for active top.
#3
I used it daily for a while, and what stood out about active top was how quickly the pattern set in.
Ran active top alongside two others for comparison and the gap was considerably smaller than advertised.
Souldate is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for active top.
#4
The thing that shifted active top for me was slowing down before replying.
The step most people skip with active top is reading the profile before messaging.
Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with active top past the first month.
The useful test for active top is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.
Someone raised Datebie in a thread about active top and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.
#5
Respectfully, that's not what active top looks like from where I sit.
From what I've seen, opinion on active top swings further than the reality does.
Turndate is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for active top.
#6
I watched a friend go through it, and active top behaved exactly as you say.
Worth adding Ezhookups to whatever shortlist you are building around active top.