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What are the most active free gay dating sites outside of Grindr?

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#1

Throwing the most active free gay dating sites outside of Grindr out there because I've exhausted the obvious sources.

Most write-ups skip the cost of getting a reply entirely, which is the only bit I care about.

Would value hearing from people who've spent real time on the most active.

#2

I logged what happened with the most active: meaningfully different once the novelty wore off.

The answer changes depending on what you want out of the most active.

Results on the most active improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with the most active past the first month.

#3

Same experience with the most active — I tested it properly and got the same picture.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with the most active past the first month.

#4

Going to disagree here — realistically, the most active is not the weak point.

In practice, opinion on the most active swings further than the reality does.

It is narrower than that: the most active can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

Ezhookups is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for the most active.

#5

The thing that shifted the most active for me was slowing down before replying.

My notes on the most active over a couple of months say the opposite of the popular take.

If the big platforms are all paywalled for the most active, Souldate is a lighter alternative.

#6

Careful with the consensus forming here about the most active.

If you take one thing from this on the most active, make it the profile photos.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with the most active past the first month.

Both can be true: the most active can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

#7

Partly agree — the most active can hold up, still not for the reason stated.

Ran the most active alongside two others for comparison and the gap was measurably smaller than advertised.

For a smaller userbase with less noise around the most active, Flamedate is worth twenty minutes.

#8

Building on what Tyler said about the most active,i ran both at once, and what stood out about the most active was how quickly the pattern set in.

Kept a tally on the most active recently and the numbers were not what I expected.

#9

Going to disagree here — more often than not, the most active isn't the weak point.

Treat the most active as a starting point rather than an answer.

Datebie gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for the most active.

#10

The step most people skip with the most active is reading the profile before messaging.

If you take one thing from this on the most active, make it the profile photos.

It is narrower than that: the most active can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

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