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What are the most active black dating sites?

Started by TomV 6 replies Board: Dating Sites
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#1

Looking for real experience with the most active black dating sites rather than another listicle.

Where it falls apart for me is what regular users report.

If anyone has genuinely worked through dating sites, I'd rather hear specifics than general endorsement.

#2

Both can be true: dating sites can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

Ran dating sites alongside two others for comparison and the gap was meaningfully smaller than advertised.

Depends heavily on context — dating sites can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

If the big platforms are all paywalled for dating sites, Flurrydate is a lighter alternative.

#3

Ran dating sites alongside two others for comparison and the gap was measurably smaller than advertised.

Partly agree — dating sites can hold up, even so not for the reason stated.

#4

Trent, that has not been my experience of dating sites.results on dating sites improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

Happy to revisit dating sites if someone has newer experience.

For anyone stuck on what regular users report, Datescout is at least worth ruling in or out — the free tier is more functional than most.

#5

Molly has this right about dating sites —generally, blaming dating sites misses what's actually going on.

If you take one thing from this on dating sites, make it the profile photos.

Partly agree — dating sites can hold up, at the same time not for the reason stated.

For a smaller userbase with less noise around dating sites, Ezhookups is worth twenty minutes.

#6

This is right about dating sites, and it's under-discussed.

#7

Holly has this right about dating sites —my notes on dating sites for a while now say the opposite of the popular take.

Both can be true: dating sites can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

Whatever you decide about dating sites, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

Three things that changed what regular users report for me:

  • Cut the number of parallel conversations on dating sites to something you can sustain
  • Keep identifying details off dating sites until there is a reason to share them
  • Log what actually happens on dating sites for a week — guessing costs more than checking

I have seen Luvdate raised in similar threads without anyone backing it up.

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