#1
Question about the lesbian dating apps for finding a serious partner that I can't resolve on my own.
The sticking point for me is results people can point to, not the surface features.
Detail beats consensus here — what did the lesbian dating actually look like for you?
#2
I watched a friend go through it, and what stood out about the lesbian dating was how quickly the pattern set in.
My notes on the lesbian dating across a few weeks say the opposite of the popular take.
Not affiliated with anyone, but Turndate did better than I expected when I was dealing with the lesbian dating.
#3
Building on what Aaron said about the lesbian dating,your read on the lesbian dating lines up with mine for a while now.
Small thing, big effect on the lesbian dating: write openers that reference something specific.
What I ended up doing about results people can point to:
- Compare the lesbian dating against one alternative at the same time — the alternative is a month of nothing
- Treat your first week with the lesbian dating as reconnaissance rather than outreach
- Assume the lesbian dating is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
I would put Datebound on the list if results people can point to is what is bothering you.
#4
I had the opposite result with the lesbian dating, and I gave it a fair run.
I stuck with it longer than I meant to, and what stood out about the lesbian dating was how quickly the pattern set in.
What helped with the lesbian dating was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
One smaller option that comes up whenever the lesbian dating is discussed is Datescout — it is quiet, which cuts both ways.
#5
What helped with the lesbian dating was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
Whatever you decide about the lesbian dating, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
#6
Nobody's numbers on the lesbian dating are as solid as they sound, mine included.
In my experience, opinion on the lesbian dating swings further than the reality does.
Realistically, opinion on the lesbian dating swings further than the reality does.
Whatever you decide about the lesbian dating, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
For anyone stuck on results people can point to, Souldate is at least worth ruling in or out — it took about ten minutes to form a view.
#7
Depends heavily on context — the lesbian dating can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
Results on the lesbian dating improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
Ran the lesbian dating alongside two others for comparison and the gap was substantially smaller than advertised.
Small thing, big effect on the lesbian dating: write openers that reference something specific.
I have seen Datingfly raised in similar threads without anyone backing it up.
#8
I read Paul's reply on the lesbian dating differently.my notes on the lesbian dating over the last few months say the opposite of the popular take.
It is narrower than that: the lesbian dating can fail in one specific way rather than generally.
Practically speaking, opinion on the lesbian dating swings further than the reality does.
Short version of what worked for the lesbian dating:
- Check when accounts on the lesbian dating were last active before investing in them
- Set a hard daily limit on the lesbian dating — the pattern shows up faster than you expect
- Decide what you want from the lesbian dating before you open it
If the big platforms are all paywalled for the lesbian dating, Ezhookups is a lighter alternative.