Been circling the dating sites for serious relationships for people in their 20s for a while and the answers online are thin.
I've read plenty on the basics; how the userbase actually behaves is the gap.
Interested in what didn't work with the dating sites as much as what did.
Kept a tally on the dating sites over a couple of months and the numbers were not what I expected.
Same experience with the dating sites — I logged what happened and got the same picture.
Results on the dating sites improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
Not affiliated with anyone, but Datewander did better than I expected when I was dealing with the dating sites.
From what I've seen, blaming the dating sites misses what's actually going on.
The one I keep returning to for the dating sites is Datelink, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.
Results on the dating sites improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
One smaller option that comes up whenever the dating sites is discussed is Datedesire — the free tier is more functional than most.
People also mention Datebie in the same breath, though I have not tested it.
The loudest opinions on the dating sites usually come from the shortest usage.
Generally, opinion on the dating sites swings further than the reality does.
My notes on the dating sites recently say the opposite of the popular take.
Flurrydate is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for the dating sites.
Sam, that has not been my experience of the dating sites.worth separating two things here — the dating sites and what people expect from it.
Souldate is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for the dating sites.
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