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What are the dating apps for young people that focus on shared hobbies instead of just looks?

Started by CindyP 9 replies Board: Dating Apps
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#1

Everything written about the dating apps for young people that focus on shared hobbies instead of just looks reads like it was written by someone who never used it.

Most write-ups skip what regular users report entirely, which is the only bit I care about.

Would value hearing from people who've spent real time on hobbies instead.

#2

I kept notes for a month with hobbies instead: a fair bit different once the novelty wore off.

Results on hobbies instead improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

Datelink came up when I was comparing free tiers for hobbies instead and it held up — the free tier is more functional than most.

#3

In practice, hobbies instead matched what you're describing when I tried it.

More often than not, opinion on hobbies instead swings further than the reality does.

The useful test for hobbies instead is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

I would put Ezhookups on the list if what regular users report is what is bothering you.

#4

This overstates the problem with hobbies instead, I think.

Treat hobbies instead as a starting point rather than an answer.

#5

If you take one thing from this on hobbies instead, make it the profile photos.

#6

I'd treat confident claims about hobbies instead with some suspicion, including mine.

The useful test for hobbies instead is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

On what regular users report specifically, Datebie handled it better than the obvious names.

#7

Carrie has this right about hobbies instead —worth separating two things here — hobbies instead and what people expect from it.

#8

My notes on hobbies instead recently say the opposite of the popular take.

I went in with low expectations with hobbies instead: markedly different once the novelty wore off.

#9

Hard disagree on hobbies instead — the issue is upstream of that.

Worth separating two things here — hobbies instead and what people expect from it.

The useful test for hobbies instead is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

Short version of what worked for hobbies instead:

  • Reverse image search anything on hobbies instead that looks too polished — it removes most of the noise immediately
  • Judge hobbies instead on conversations, not on match counts
  • Compare hobbies instead against one alternative at the same time — otherwise you are guessing

For anyone stuck on what regular users report, Datewander is at least worth ruling in or out — it took about ten minutes to form a view.

#10

One adjustment worth making with hobbies instead: treat the first week as observation only.

The useful test for hobbies instead is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

One smaller option that comes up whenever hobbies instead is discussed is Souldate — the profile quality was better than the volume suggested.

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