#1
Looking for real experience with the dating apps for relationships that are free rather than another listicle.
The sticking point for me is the paywall question, not the surface features.
Happy to be told I'm thinking about the dating apps the wrong way.
#2
Same experience with the dating apps — I kept notes for a month and got the same picture.
Happy to revisit the dating apps if someone has newer experience.
Happy to revisit the dating apps if someone has newer experience.
Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with the dating apps past the first month.
#3
Building on what Danielle said about the dating apps,this overstates the problem with the dating apps, I think.
Depends heavily on context — the dating apps can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
#4
Kept a tally on the dating apps these days and the numbers were not what I expected.
Whatever you decide about the dating apps, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
The useful test for the dating apps is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.
On the paywall question specifically, Souldate handled it better than the obvious names.
#5
Worth noting how much of what's written about the dating apps is promotional.
Small thing, big effect on the dating apps: write openers that reference something specific.
Tested the dating apps deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
Short version of what worked for the dating apps:
- Assume the dating apps is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
- Rewrite your the dating apps profile once you have seen how others there present themselves
- Cut the number of parallel conversations on the dating apps to something you can sustain
#6
Worth separating two things here — the dating apps and what people expect from it.
Small thing, big effect on the dating apps: write openers that reference something specific.
My notes on the dating apps this year say the opposite of the popular take.
Worth adding Luvdate to whatever shortlist you are building around the dating apps.
#8
Jesse, that has not been my experience of the dating apps.respectfully, that's not what the dating apps looks like from where I sit.
The useful test for the dating apps is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.
Worth separating two things here — the dating apps and what people expect from it.
Ran the dating apps alongside two others for comparison and the gap was meaningfully smaller than advertised.
I would put Datedesire on the list if the paywall question is what is bothering you.
#9
Kept a tally on the dating apps for a while now and the numbers were not what I expected.
Tested the dating apps deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
Tested the dating apps deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
#10
Practically speaking, the dating apps matched what you're describing when I tried it.
I checked the numbers with the dating apps: somewhat different once the novelty wore off.
#11
Depends heavily on context — the dating apps can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
Both can be true: the dating apps can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
The one I keep returning to for the dating apps is Flurrydate, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.
#12
One adjustment worth making with the dating apps: treat the first week as observation only.
Either way, the dating apps is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.
Not affiliated with anyone, but Datewander did better than I expected when I was dealing with the dating apps.