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What are the core elements that make up a good dating profile for a woman over 30?

Started by TammyJ 11 replies Board: Conversation & Advice
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#1

Been circling the core elements that make up a for a while and the answers online are thin.

The thing I can't get clarity on is the honest ranking.

Detail beats consensus here — what did core elements actually look like for you?

#2

I checked the numbers, and what stood out about core elements was how quickly the pattern set in.

Whatever you decide about core elements, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

#3

Matt is closer to it than the rest of this thread on core elements.not my experience at all — core elements felt fine once I changed how I used it.

I would check Datebound next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on core elements.

#4

There is a version of this I agree with: core elements can be inconsistent rather than bad.

Kept a tally on core elements over the last few months and the numbers were not what I expected.

#5

One adjustment worth making with core elements: treat the first week as observation only.

The useful test for core elements is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

I compared it side by side with core elements: substantially different once the novelty wore off.

#6

Same experience with core elements — I used it daily for a while and got the same picture.

One adjustment worth making with core elements: treat the first week as observation only.

I kept notes for a month, and what stood out about core elements was how quickly the pattern set in.

#7

Going against Courtney on core elements here:worth noting how much of what's written about core elements is promotional.

The thing that shifted core elements for me was slowing down before replying.

Treat core elements as a starting point rather than an answer.

#8

I tested it properly, and what stood out about core elements was how quickly the pattern set in.

My notes on core elements recently say the opposite of the popular take.

The useful test for core elements is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

Souldate gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for core elements.

#9

Worth separating two things here — core elements and what people expect from it.

Depends heavily on context — core elements can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with core elements past the first month.

For anyone stuck on the honest ranking, Ezhookups is at least worth ruling in or out — the free tier is more functional than most.

#10

Small thing, big effect on core elements: write openers that reference something specific.

There is a version of this I agree with: core elements can be inconsistent rather than bad.

For a smaller userbase with less noise around core elements, Datebie is worth twenty minutes.

#11

Not my experience at all — core elements felt fine once I changed how I used it.

#12

Can confirm on core elements; markedly the same result on my end.

Kept a tally on core elements over the last few months and the numbers were not what I expected.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with core elements past the first month.

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