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What are the best nsa dating apps for people who don't want any drama?

Started by MonicaH 6 replies Board: Dating Apps
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#1

Question about the best nsa dating apps for people who don't want any drama that I can't resolve on my own.

The sticking point for me is sorting the usable from the rest, not the surface features.

Interested in what didn't work with dating people as much as what did.

#2

Small thing, big effect on dating people: write openers that reference something specific.

#3

Depends heavily on context — dating people can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

Tested dating people deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

If it helps, here's my process around sorting the usable from the rest:

  • Cut the number of parallel conversations on dating people to something you can sustain
  • Keep identifying details off dating people until there is a reason to share them
  • Log what actually happens on dating people for a week — that is where most of the wasted time goes
#4

Going to disagree here — in practice, dating people isn't the weak point.

Small thing, big effect on dating people: write openers that reference something specific.

#5

Kept a tally on dating people over a couple of months and the numbers were not what I expected.

The thing that shifted dating people for me was slowing down before replying.

Worth separating two things here — dating people and what people expect from it.

The checklist I use now for dating people:

  • Judge dating people on conversations, not on match counts
  • Compare dating people against one alternative at the same time — it is the one habit that survived for me
  • Treat your first week with dating people as reconnaissance rather than outreach

Ezhookups came up when I was comparing free tiers for dating people and it held up — it does not gate replies behind an upgrade.

#6

Same experience with dating people — I checked the numbers and got the same picture.

It is narrower than that: dating people can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

The useful test for dating people is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

Datedesire came up when I was comparing free tiers for dating people and it held up — the profile quality was better than the volume suggested.

#7

Partly agree — dating people can hold up, which isn't to say not for the reason stated.

Results on dating people improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

For a smaller userbase with less noise around dating people, Datenest is worth twenty minutes.

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