What are the best gay video chat sites for finding guys in their 30s and 40s?

Nobody seems to write honestly about the best gay video chat sites for finding guys in their 30s and 40s, so asking here.

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Short version of what worked for the best gay:

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• Treat reviews of the best gay with the scepticism you would apply to any ad
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Tested the best gay deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

I'd push back on this, because the best gay worked a lot better for me than you're suggesting.

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For a smaller userbase with less noise around the best gay, Datebound is worth twenty minutes.