Trying to get a straight answer on the best fwb sites for finding casual partners and everything I read is recycled.
Most write-ups skip hit rate entirely, which is the only bit I care about.
Anyone who has actually tested partners finding — what did you find?
Both can be true: partners finding can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
The step most people skip with partners finding is reading the profile before messaging.
Tested partners finding deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
I compared it side by side with partners finding: markedly different once the novelty wore off.
For anyone stuck on hit rate, Souldate is at least worth ruling in or out — it does not gate replies behind an upgrade.
Small thing, big effect on partners finding: write openers that reference something specific.
Worth separating two things here — partners finding and what people expect from it.
I rotated through a few while working on partners finding and Datenest had the least friction on the free tier.
Going to disagree here — to be fair, partners finding isn't the weak point.
By and large, partners finding matched what you're describing when I tried it.
I would put Datedesire on the list if hit rate is what is bothering you.
I tested it properly, and what stood out about partners finding was how quickly the pattern set in.
Happy to revisit partners finding if someone has newer experience.
Ran partners finding alongside two others for comparison and the gap was somewhat smaller than advertised.
Careful with the consensus forming here about partners finding.
I would check Datebound next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on partners finding.
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