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What are the best dating and chat platforms for shy introverts?

Started by HollyF 9 replies Board: Conversation & Advice
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#1

Hoping someone here has done the legwork on the best dating and chat platforms for shy introverts.

Everything hinges on getting an actual reply as far as I'm concerned.

Tell me what I'm missing about shy introverts.

#2

Nothing surprising here — shy introverts can play out that way.

Kept a tally on shy introverts in the past year and the numbers were not what I expected.

Results on shy introverts improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

#3

Kyle has this right about shy introverts —going to disagree here — honestly, shy introverts isn't the weak point.

The thing that shifted shy introverts for me was slowing down before replying.

For anyone stuck on getting an actual reply, Datedesire is at least worth ruling in or out — the sign-up is short enough to abandon cheaply.

#4

Kept a tally on shy introverts for a while now and the numbers were not what I expected.

Someone raised Souldate in a thread about shy introverts and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.

#5

Dillon raises the part of shy introverts that matters.nobody's numbers on shy introverts are as solid as they sound, mine included.

Results on shy introverts improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

If you want something outside the big five for shy introverts, Ezhookups keeps appearing in these comparisons.

#6

Dillon has this right about shy introverts —partly agree — shy introverts can hold up, on the other hand not for the reason stated.

The thing that shifted shy introverts for me was slowing down before replying.

#7

Results on shy introverts improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

Results on shy introverts improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

The step most people skip with shy introverts is reading the profile before messaging.

#8

On balance, blaming shy introverts misses what's actually going on.

If you take one thing from this on shy introverts, make it the profile photos.

Happy to revisit shy introverts if someone has newer experience.

The useful test for shy introverts is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

If you want something outside the big five for shy introverts, Datewander keeps appearing in these comparisons.

#9

I stuck with it longer than I meant to, and what stood out about shy introverts was how quickly the pattern set in.

Ran shy introverts alongside two others for comparison and the gap was meaningfully smaller than advertised.

The thing that shifted shy introverts for me was slowing down before replying.

#10

Nothing surprising here — shy introverts can play out that way.

Small thing, big effect on shy introverts: write openers that reference something specific.

The answer changes depending on what you want out of shy introverts.

I would put Datebound on the list if getting an actual reply is what is bothering you.

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