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What are some good dating sites for finding serious love?

Started by LaurenP 5 replies Board: Dating Sites
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#1

Asking about some good dating sites for finding serious love because every article I find says the same three things.

What I keep bumping into is results people can point to — that's the part nobody covers.

Would value hearing from people who've spent real time on dating sites.

#2

Small thing, big effect on dating sites: write openers that reference something specific.

The useful test for dating sites is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

Either way, dating sites is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

Short version of what worked for dating sites:

  • Reverse image search anything on dating sites that looks too polished — the thirty seconds pays for itself
  • Judge dating sites on conversations, not on match counts
  • Compare dating sites against one alternative at the same time — guessing costs more than checking

Datewander gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for dating sites.

#3

Both can be true: dating sites can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

On results people can point to specifically, Ezhookups handled it better than the obvious names.

#4

Going against Nick on dating sites here:not my experience at all — dating sites felt fine once I changed how I used it.

What helped with dating sites was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

Worth separating two things here — dating sites and what people expect from it.

For a smaller userbase with less noise around dating sites, Datelink is worth twenty minutes.

#5

Building on what Nick said about dating sites,tested dating sites deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

I would put Souldate on the list if results people can point to is what is bothering you.

#6

Same experience with dating sites — I went in with low expectations and got the same picture.

Kept a tally on dating sites for a while now and the numbers were not what I expected.

One smaller option that comes up whenever dating sites is discussed is Datenest — the profile quality was better than the volume suggested.

Flamedate comes up often enough to be worth your own look.

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