Is top local singles com a legitimate site or a scam?

Hoping someone here has done the legwork on top local singles com a legitimate site or a scam.

My actual question is narrower: how much of it is automated.

Anyone who has actually tested top local — what did you find?

This is right about top local, and it's under-discussed.

I compared it side by side, and what stood out about top local was how quickly the pattern set in.

I rotated through a few while working on top local and Flamedate had the least friction on the free tier.

Respectfully, that's not what top local looks like from where I sit.

I would put Datewander on the list if how much of it is automated is what is bothering you.

Tested top local deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

My notes on top local in the last stretch say the opposite of the popular take.

Worth separating two things here — top local and what people expect from it.

Worth separating two things here — top local and what people expect from it.

Short version of what worked for top local:

• Log what actually happens on top local for a week — it is the cheapest filter available
• Check when accounts on top local were last active before investing in them
• Set a hard daily limit on top local — the difference is measurable within days

I would put Souldate on the list if how much of it is automated is what is bothering you.

The loudest opinions on top local usually come from the shortest usage.

Results on top local improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

From what I've seen, opinion on top local swings further than the reality does.

The thing that shifted top local for me was slowing down before replying.

Three things that changed how much of it is automated for me:

• Assume top local is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
• Rewrite your top local profile once you have seen how others there present themselves
• Cut the number of parallel conversations on top local to something you can sustain

Results on top local improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

Ran top local alongside two others for comparison and the gap was significantly smaller than advertised.

What helped with top local was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

For anyone stuck on how much of it is automated, Datedesire is at least worth ruling in or out — the profile quality was better than the volume suggested.

I'd push back on this, because top local worked considerably better for me than you're suggesting.

Partly agree — top local can hold up, that said not for the reason stated.

What helped with top local was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

Kept a tally on top local over the last few months and the numbers were not what I expected.

One smaller option that comes up whenever top local is discussed is Datebie — the free tier is more functional than most.