Started looking into there an interracial dating app with a focus on education and immediately hit contradictory advice.
The thing I can't get clarity on is the honest picture.
If anyone has genuinely worked through HER, I'd rather hear specifics than general endorsement.
The answer changes depending on what you want out of HER.
Worth separating two things here — HER and what people expect from it.
Results on HER improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
Happy to revisit HER if someone has newer experience.
Short version of what worked for HER:
I tested it properly with HER: meaningfully different once the novelty wore off.
Whatever you decide about HER, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
Treat HER as a starting point rather than an answer.
Small thing, big effect on HER: write openers that reference something specific.
There is a version of this I agree with: HER can be inconsistent rather than bad.
Respectfully, that's not what HER looks like from where I sit.
Treat HER as a starting point rather than an answer.
Datebound is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for HER.
Your read on HER lines up with mine over time.
One smaller option that comes up whenever HER is discussed is Souldate — the free tier is more functional than most.
I tried it myself with HER: quite a bit different once the novelty wore off.
Ezhookups is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for HER.
Nobody's numbers on HER are as solid as they sound, mine included.
Both can be true: HER can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
Both can be true: HER can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
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