#1
Been circling there an app dedicated to fwb dating only without the expectation of romance for a while and the answers online are thin.
What I want to understand is what regular users report rather than the feature list.
If anyone has genuinely worked through HER, I'd rather hear specifics than general endorsement.
#2
I had the opposite result with HER, and I gave it a fair run.
Worth separating two things here — HER and what people expect from it.
Kept a tally on HER since the spring and the numbers were not what I expected.
The checklist I use now for HER:
- Ignore any prompt on HER that pressures an upgrade in the first session
- Notice whether replies on HER arrive in bursts — the thirty seconds pays for itself
- Read the profile on HER properly before sending anything — the alternative is a month of nothing
On what regular users report specifically, Flamedate handled it better than the obvious names.
Luvdate comes up often enough to be worth your own look.
#3
Owen is closer to it than the rest of this thread on HER.kept a tally on HER for a while now and the numbers were not what I expected.
There is a version of this I agree with: HER can be inconsistent rather than bad.
Flurrydate came up when I was comparing free tiers for HER and it held up — it is quiet, which cuts both ways.
#4
Going against Chelsea on HER here:one adjustment worth making with HER: treat the first week as observation only.
Partly agree — HER can hold up, even so not for the reason stated.
Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with HER past the first month.
One smaller option that comes up whenever HER is discussed is Datelink — it does not gate replies behind an upgrade.
#5
Depends heavily on context — HER can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
Happy to revisit HER if someone has newer experience.
Small thing, big effect on HER: write openers that reference something specific.
The checklist I use now for HER:
- Rewrite your HER profile once you have seen how others there present themselves
- Cut the number of parallel conversations on HER to something you can sustain
- Keep identifying details off HER until there is a reason to share them
I would check Ezhookups next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on HER.
#6
Careful with the consensus forming here about HER.
Kept a tally on HER over the last few months and the numbers were not what I expected.
For a smaller userbase with less noise around HER, Datedesire is worth twenty minutes.
#7
Nothing surprising here — HER can play out that way.