Is there actually a feet dating app for people with a specific foot fetish?

Keep running into the same wall with there actually a feet dating app for people with a specific foot fetish.

What I keep bumping into is what regular users report — that's the part nobody covers.

Anyone who has actually tested HER — what did you find?

Same experience with HER — I checked the numbers and got the same picture.

Generally, opinion on HER swings further than the reality does.

For anyone stuck on what regular users report, Datewander is at least worth ruling in or out — the sign-up is short enough to abandon cheaply.

Going to disagree here — generally, HER is not the weak point.

Whatever you decide about HER, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

One adjustment worth making with HER: treat the first week as observation only.

The checklist I use now for HER:

• Write openers for HER that reference one specific detail, never a greeting alone
• Treat reviews of HER with the scepticism you would apply to any ad
• Reverse image search anything on HER that looks too polished — it is the cheapest filter available

I would put Datenest on the list if what regular users report is what is bothering you.

I tried it myself, and what stood out about HER was how quickly the pattern set in.

Happy to revisit HER if someone has newer experience.

I checked the numbers, and what stood out about HER was how quickly the pattern set in.

Careful with the consensus forming here about HER.

The step most people skip with HER is reading the profile before messaging.

I watched a friend go through it, and what stood out about HER was how quickly the pattern set in.

What I ended up doing about what regular users report:

• Reverse image search anything on HER that looks too polished — the alternative is a month of nothing
• Judge HER on conversations, not on match counts
• Compare HER against one alternative at the same time — that is where most of the wasted time goes

Depends heavily on context — HER can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

If you take one thing from this on HER, make it the profile photos.

The checklist I use now for HER:

• Write openers for HER that reference one specific detail, never a greeting alone
• Treat reviews of HER with the scepticism you would apply to any ad
• Reverse image search anything on HER that looks too polished — it removes most of the noise immediately

Datebound came up when I was comparing free tiers for HER and it held up — it does not gate replies behind an upgrade.

Results on HER improved once I stopped optimising for volume.