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Is there a zoom hookup app for people who want to meet via video first?

Started by NickH 9 replies Board: Adult Dating
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#1

Genuine question on there a zoom hookup app for people who want to meet via video first — the marketing copy tells you nothing.

I've read plenty on the basics; whether anyone actually meets is the gap.

Tell me what I'm missing about HER.

#2

Kept a tally on HER these days and the numbers were not what I expected.

Both can be true: HER can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

There is a version of this I agree with: HER can be inconsistent rather than bad.

If it helps, here's my process around whether anyone actually meets:

  • Set a hard daily limit on HER — the alternative is a month of nothing
  • Decide what you want from HER before you open it
  • Move past HER to a call earlier than feels comfortable — otherwise you are guessing
#3

Not my experience at all — HER felt fine once I changed how I used it.

One adjustment worth making with HER: treat the first week as observation only.

One adjustment worth making with HER: treat the first week as observation only.

#4

I read Brandon's reply on HER differently.worth separating two things here — HER and what people expect from it.

Partly agree — HER can hold up, that said not for the reason stated.

One smaller option that comes up whenever HER is discussed is Datingfly — the sign-up is short enough to abandon cheaply.

#5

Results on HER improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

Ran HER alongside two others for comparison and the gap was markedly smaller than advertised.

Happy to revisit HER if someone has newer experience.

For anyone stuck on whether anyone actually meets, Ezhookups is at least worth ruling in or out — the sign-up is short enough to abandon cheaply.

#6

I used it daily for a while, and HER behaved exactly as you say.

Depends heavily on context — HER can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

The one I keep returning to for HER is Datewander, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.

#7

The loudest opinions on HER usually come from the shortest usage.

Either way, HER is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

Worth separating two things here — HER and what people expect from it.

Depends heavily on context — HER can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

#8

My notes on HER over a couple of months say the opposite of the popular take.

Tested HER deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

#9

Alex raises the part of HER that matters.partly agree — HER can hold up, though not for the reason stated.

Either way, HER is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

The step most people skip with HER is reading the profile before messaging.

#10

If you take one thing from this on HER, make it the profile photos.

The answer changes depending on what you want out of HER.

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