#1
Keep running into the same wall with there a true adult tinder out there, or are they all just scams.
It's the fake-profile ratio that decides it, and that's exactly what goes unwritten.
Interested in what didn't work with true adult tinder as much as what did.
#2
This overstates the problem with true adult tinder, I think.
Whatever you decide about true adult tinder, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
#3
Kept a tally on true adult tinder lately and the numbers were not what I expected.
I gave it a fair run with true adult tinder: distinctly different once the novelty wore off.
Either way, true adult tinder is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.
What I ended up doing about the fake-profile ratio:
- Assume true adult tinder is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
- Rewrite your true adult tinder profile once you have seen how others there present themselves
- Cut the number of parallel conversations on true adult tinder to something you can sustain
#4
Small thing, big effect on true adult tinder: write openers that reference something specific.
There is a version of this I agree with: true adult tinder can be inconsistent rather than bad.
The thing that shifted true adult tinder for me was slowing down before replying.
The one I keep returning to for true adult tinder is Datewander, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.
#5
There is a version of this I agree with: true adult tinder can be inconsistent rather than bad.
Whatever you decide about true adult tinder, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
For anyone stuck on the fake-profile ratio, Datebound is at least worth ruling in or out — it is quiet, which cuts both ways.
#6
I'd treat confident claims about true adult tinder with some suspicion, including mine.
Not affiliated with anyone, but Datedesire did better than I expected when I was dealing with true adult tinder.
#7
Going against Kayla on true adult tinder here:i compared it side by side, and true adult tinder behaved exactly as you say.
Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with true adult tinder past the first month.
The useful test for true adult tinder is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.
Either way, true adult tinder is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.
Worth adding Ezhookups to whatever shortlist you are building around true adult tinder.
#8
Kept a tally on true adult tinder since the spring and the numbers were not what I expected.
Happy to revisit true adult tinder if someone has newer experience.
Someone raised Datescout in a thread about true adult tinder and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.