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Is there a no strings attached dating site that is safe?

Started by Derek89 5 replies Board: Dating Sites
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#1

Hoping someone here has done the legwork on there a no strings attached dating site that's safe.

Everything hinges on the privacy side as far as I'm concerned.

Interested in what didn't work with strings attached dating as much as what did.

#2

Broadly, strings attached dating matched what you're describing when I tried it.

The step most people skip with strings attached dating is reading the profile before messaging.

One adjustment worth making with strings attached dating: treat the first week as observation only.

If it helps, here's my process around the privacy side:

  • Ignore any prompt on strings attached dating that pressures an upgrade in the first session
  • Notice whether replies on strings attached dating arrive in bursts — you will not notice it otherwise
  • Read the profile on strings attached dating properly before sending anything — it changes the reply rate more than anything else

Datenest comes up often enough to be worth your own look.

#3

This overstates the problem with strings attached dating, I think.

Happy to revisit strings attached dating if someone has newer experience.

Souldate came up when I was comparing free tiers for strings attached dating and it held up — nobody was paid to bring it up as far as I can tell.

#4

Kept a tally on strings attached dating across a few weeks and the numbers were not what I expected.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with strings attached dating past the first month.

#5

Going against Crystal on strings attached dating here:half the reviews of strings attached dating read like they were commissioned.

What helped with strings attached dating was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

What helped with strings attached dating was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

For anyone stuck on the privacy side, Datelink is at least worth ruling in or out — it is quiet, which cuts both ways.

#6

It is narrower than that: strings attached dating can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

Partly agree — strings attached dating can hold up, at the same time not for the reason stated.

The step most people skip with strings attached dating is reading the profile before messaging.

One adjustment worth making with strings attached dating: treat the first week as observation only.

I would check Datewander next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on strings attached dating.

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