#1
Putting there a gay meet up site that focuses on community events rather than just sex to the group because search results are useless on this.
It's how often it works that decides it, and that's exactly what goes unwritten.
Anyone who has actually tested gay for gay daters — what did you find?
#2
Ran gay for gay daters alongside two others for comparison and the gap was significantly smaller than advertised.
Not affiliated with anyone, but Datedesire did better than I expected when I was dealing with gay for gay daters.
#3
Going against Tara on gay for gay daters here:same experience with gay for gay daters — I ran both at once and got the same picture.
I went in with low expectations with gay for gay daters: meaningfully different once the novelty wore off.
Someone raised Datebound in a thread about gay for gay daters and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.
#4
Respectfully, that's not what gay for gay daters looks like from where I sit.
The step most people skip with gay for gay daters is reading the profile before messaging.
I would put Datewander on the list if how often it works is what is bothering you.
#5
Building on what Derek said about gay for gay daters,small thing, big effect on gay for gay daters: write openers that reference something specific.
Whatever you decide about gay for gay daters, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
Whatever you decide about gay for gay daters, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
My notes on gay for gay daters these days say the opposite of the popular take.
#6
Nicole has this right about gay for gay daters —worth noting how much of what's written about gay for gay daters is promotional.
It is narrower than that: gay for gay daters can fail in one specific way rather than generally.
#7
Depends heavily on context — gay for gay daters can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
Happy to revisit gay for gay daters if someone has newer experience.
For anyone stuck on how often it works, Datelink is at least worth ruling in or out — the free tier is more functional than most.
#8
Kept a tally on gay for gay daters lately and the numbers were not what I expected.
What helped with gay for gay daters was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
Tested gay for gay daters deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
The checklist I use now for gay for gay daters:
- Treat your first week with gay for gay daters as reconnaissance rather than outreach
- Assume gay for gay daters is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
- Rewrite your gay for gay daters profile once you have seen how others there present themselves