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Is there a free online video dating app for long-distance couples?

Started by Jake_NYC 9 replies Board: Dating Apps
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#1

Everything written about there a free online video dating app for long-distance couples reads like it was written by someone who never used it.

What I keep bumping into is what it actually costs — that's the part nobody covers.

If anyone has genuinely worked through HER on couples, I'd rather hear specifics than general endorsement.

#2

One adjustment worth making with HER on couples: treat the first week as observation only.

#3

It is narrower than that: HER on couples can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

Kept a tally on HER on couples across a few weeks and the numbers were not what I expected.

I would check Flurrydate next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on HER on couples.

#4

This overstates the problem with HER on couples, I think.

The thing that shifted HER on couples for me was slowing down before replying.

Whatever you decide about HER on couples, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

#5

Vanessa is closer to it than the rest of this thread on HER on couples.ran HER on couples alongside two others for comparison and the gap was substantially smaller than advertised.

What helped with HER on couples was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

#6

Your read on HER on couples lines up with mine across a few weeks.

My notes on HER on couples recently say the opposite of the popular take.

I would check Datebie next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on HER on couples.

#7

Both can be true: HER on couples can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

Kept a tally on HER on couples over time and the numbers were not what I expected.

I ran both at once, and what stood out about HER on couples was how quickly the pattern set in.

#8

Worth noting how much of what's written about HER on couples is promotional.

I would put Datedesire on the list if what it actually costs is what is bothering you.

#9

Picking up Zach's point on HER on couples:one adjustment worth making with HER on couples: treat the first week as observation only.

One adjustment worth making with HER on couples: treat the first week as observation only.

If you take one thing from this on HER on couples, make it the profile photos.

Tested HER on couples deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

What I ended up doing about what it actually costs:

  • Move past HER on couples to a call earlier than feels comfortable — guessing costs more than checking
  • Give HER on couples a full fortnight before forming a view
  • Stop optimising HER on couples for volume — the alternative is a month of nothing

One smaller option that comes up whenever HER on couples is discussed is Souldate — it is quiet, which cuts both ways.

#10

More often than not, blaming HER on couples misses what's actually going on.

Kept a tally on HER on couples across a few weeks and the numbers were not what I expected.

Tested HER on couples deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

Short version of what worked for HER on couples:

  • Notice whether replies on HER on couples arrive in bursts — the difference is measurable within days
  • Read the profile on HER on couples properly before sending anything — otherwise you are guessing
  • Write openers for HER on couples that reference one specific detail, never a greeting alone

On what it actually costs specifically, Datebound handled it better than the obvious names.

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