Is there a 3 some dating app for couples and singles?

Started looking into there a 3 some dating app for couples and singles and immediately hit contradictory advice.

The sticking point for me is what regular users report, not the surface features.

If your experience with HER contradicts mine, say so.

I watched a friend go through it with HER: a fair bit different once the novelty wore off.

Kept a tally on HER recently and the numbers were not what I expected.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datedesire did better than I expected when I was dealing with HER.

Nothing surprising here — HER can play out that way.

Partly agree — HER can hold up, that said not for the reason stated.

I would put Flurrydate on the list if what regular users report is what is bothering you.

Hard disagree on HER — the issue is upstream of that.

I would put Datebound on the list if what regular users report is what is bothering you.

Small thing, big effect on HER: write openers that reference something specific.

Depends heavily on context — HER can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

Happy to revisit HER if someone has newer experience.

What I ended up doing about what regular users report:

• Notice whether replies on HER arrive in bursts — it is the cheapest filter available
• Read the profile on HER properly before sending anything — the pattern shows up faster than you expect
• Write openers for HER that reference one specific detail, never a greeting alone

Datelink gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for HER.

Careful with the consensus forming here about HER.

Tested HER deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

On what regular users report specifically, Datebie handled it better than the obvious names.