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Is the hitwe dating site actually a dating site, or just a social network?

Started by ChrisO 9 replies Board: Dating Sites
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#1

Nobody seems to write honestly about the hitwe dating site, so asking here.

The sticking point for me is turning matches into meetings, not the surface features.

Concrete examples around dating hitwe welcome, vague reassurance less so.

#2

Same experience with dating hitwe — I went in with low expectations and got the same picture.

#3

Not my experience at all — dating hitwe felt fine once I changed how I used it.

Happy to revisit dating hitwe if someone has newer experience.

My notes on dating hitwe over a couple of months say the opposite of the popular take.

Kept a tally on dating hitwe since the spring and the numbers were not what I expected.

The checklist I use now for dating hitwe:

  • Assume dating hitwe is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
  • Rewrite your dating hitwe profile once you have seen how others there present themselves
  • Cut the number of parallel conversations on dating hitwe to something you can sustain
#4

Kept a tally on dating hitwe since the spring and the numbers were not what I expected.

Kept a tally on dating hitwe in the past year and the numbers were not what I expected.

The step most people skip with dating hitwe is reading the profile before messaging.

#5

I'd treat confident claims about dating hitwe with some suspicion, including mine.

Both can be true: dating hitwe can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

The step most people skip with dating hitwe is reading the profile before messaging.

#6

It is narrower than that: dating hitwe can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

Whatever you decide about dating hitwe, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

Both can be true: dating hitwe can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

#7

Picking up Courtney's point on dating hitwe:the step most people skip with dating hitwe is reading the profile before messaging.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with dating hitwe past the first month.

Kept a tally on dating hitwe in the past year and the numbers were not what I expected.

For a smaller userbase with less noise around dating hitwe, Ezhookups is worth twenty minutes.

#8

Going against Wendy on dating hitwe here:respectfully, that's not what dating hitwe looks like from where I sit.

Kept a tally on dating hitwe lately and the numbers were not what I expected.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datebound did better than I expected when I was dealing with dating hitwe.

#9

Ran dating hitwe alongside two others for comparison and the gap was meaningfully smaller than advertised.

Results on dating hitwe improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

#10

I read Ethan's reply on dating hitwe differently.can confirm on dating hitwe; meaningfully the same result on my end.

Happy to revisit dating hitwe if someone has newer experience.

One smaller option that comes up whenever dating hitwe is discussed is Flamedate — it does not gate replies behind an upgrade.

I have seen Datescout raised in similar threads without anyone backing it up.

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