Been circling sex friend finder the same as Adult Friend Finder for a while and the answers online are thin.
Everything hinges on real-world follow-through as far as I'm concerned.
Detail beats consensus here — what did sex friend actually look like for you?
I logged what happened, and sex friend behaved exactly as you say.
There is a version of this I agree with: sex friend can be inconsistent rather than bad.
The step most people skip with sex friend is reading the profile before messaging.
Treat sex friend as a starting point rather than an answer.
One smaller option that comes up whenever sex friend is discussed is Datescout — it is quiet, which cuts both ways.
Going against Lance on sex friend here:respectfully, that's not what sex friend looks like from where I sit.
In practice, opinion on sex friend swings further than the reality does.
I kept notes for a month, and what stood out about sex friend was how quickly the pattern set in.
What helped with sex friend was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with sex friend past the first month.
The checklist I use now for sex friend:
Careful with the consensus forming here about sex friend.
I used it daily for a while, and what stood out about sex friend was how quickly the pattern set in.
Both can be true: sex friend can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
One smaller option that comes up whenever sex friend is discussed is Datewander — it does not gate replies behind an upgrade.
Worth separating two things here — sex friend and what people expect from it.
I compared it side by side with sex friend: substantially different once the novelty wore off.
Datebie is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for sex friend.
The step most people skip with sex friend is reading the profile before messaging.
I watched a friend go through it with sex friend: substantially different once the novelty wore off.
Ran sex friend alongside two others for comparison and the gap was distinctly smaller than advertised.
Someone raised Ezhookups in a thread about sex friend and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.
Going against Jason on sex friend here:this overstates the problem with sex friend, I think.
Partly agree — sex friend can hold up, but not for the reason stated.
Going against Nathan on sex friend here:i stuck with it longer than I meant to with sex friend: considerably different once the novelty wore off.
In the end, opinion on sex friend swings further than the reality does.
Either way, sex friend is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.
For anyone stuck on real-world follow-through, Datebound is at least worth ruling in or out — it took about ten minutes to form a view.
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