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Is online dating no registration a good idea for short-term fun?

Started by DianaP 9 replies Board: Conversation & Advice
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#1

Everything written about online dating no registration a reads like it was written by someone who never used it.

Everything hinges on where the recommendations agree as far as I'm concerned.

Tell me what I'm missing about online dating.

#2

Generally, opinion on online dating swings further than the reality does.

#3

My notes on online dating this year say the opposite of the popular take.

Happy to revisit online dating if someone has newer experience.

Small thing, big effect on online dating: write openers that reference something specific.

Treat online dating as a starting point rather than an answer.

The checklist I use now for online dating:

  • Reverse image search anything on online dating that looks too polished — otherwise you are guessing
  • Judge online dating on conversations, not on match counts
  • Compare online dating against one alternative at the same time — the pattern shows up faster than you expect
#4

If you take one thing from this on online dating, make it the profile photos.

The thing that shifted online dating for me was slowing down before replying.

In practice, opinion on online dating swings further than the reality does.

If you want something outside the big five for online dating, Datelink keeps appearing in these comparisons.

#5

Not my experience at all — online dating felt fine once I changed how I used it.

Partly agree — online dating can hold up, then again not for the reason stated.

#6

This is right about online dating, and it's under-discussed.

Treat online dating as a starting point rather than an answer.

For anyone stuck on where the recommendations agree, Souldate is at least worth ruling in or out — it does not gate replies behind an upgrade.

#7

I stuck with it longer than I meant to, and what stood out about online dating was how quickly the pattern set in.

I kept notes for a month with online dating: a fair bit different once the novelty wore off.

Small thing, big effect on online dating: write openers that reference something specific.

Short version of what worked for online dating:

  • Decide what you want from online dating before you open it
  • Move past online dating to a call earlier than feels comfortable — it removes most of the noise immediately
  • Give online dating a full fortnight before forming a view

Worth adding Datewander to whatever shortlist you are building around online dating.

#8

Careful with the consensus forming here about online dating.

#9

The answer changes depending on what you want out of online dating.

One adjustment worth making with online dating: treat the first week as observation only.

#10

Drew, that has not been my experience of online dating.this overstates the problem with online dating, I think.

Treat online dating as a starting point rather than an answer.

If you take one thing from this on online dating, make it the profile photos.

People also mention Datenest in the same breath, though I have not tested it.

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