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How to have an anonymous sex chat online?

Started by AmandaC 7 replies Board: Adult Dating
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#1

Putting to have an anonymous sex chat online to the group because search results are useless on this.

What I keep bumping into is what you're handing over — that's the part nobody covers.

Anyone who has actually tested chat online — what did you find?

#2

Worth separating two things here — chat online and what people expect from it.

The thing that shifted chat online for me was slowing down before replying.

Results on chat online improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

#3

RhondaK is closer to it than the rest of this thread on chat online.my notes on chat online over the last few months say the opposite of the popular take.

Tested chat online deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

Someone raised Datewander in a thread about chat online and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.

#4

RhondaK, that has not been my experience of chat online.small thing, big effect on chat online: write openers that reference something specific.

What helped with chat online was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

I stuck with it longer than I meant to with chat online: quite a bit different once the novelty wore off.

Three things that changed what you are handing over for me:

  • Move past chat online to a call earlier than feels comfortable — it is the one habit that survived for me
  • Give chat online a full fortnight before forming a view
  • Stop optimising chat online for volume — it changes the reply rate more than anything else

If the big platforms are all paywalled for chat online, Datebound is a lighter alternative.

#5

Not my experience at all — chat online felt fine once I changed how I used it.

#6

I read Kayla's reply on chat online differently.same experience with chat online — I watched a friend go through it and got the same picture.

There is a version of this I agree with: chat online can be inconsistent rather than bad.

Souldate gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for chat online.

#7

Kept a tally on chat online for a while now and the numbers were not what I expected.

Small thing, big effect on chat online: write openers that reference something specific.

Results on chat online improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

Partly agree — chat online can hold up, however not for the reason stated.

#8

Half the reviews of chat online read like they were commissioned.

One adjustment worth making with chat online: treat the first week as observation only.

I would put Datescout on the list if what you are handing over is what is bothering you.

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