Nobody seems to write honestly about i navigate the okc dating app filters to find someone with specific political views, so asking here.
My actual question is narrower: whether anyone actually meets.
Happy to be told I'm thinking about filters find someone the wrong way.
#2
Results on filters find someone improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with filters find someone past the first month.
Kept a tally on filters find someone these days and the numbers were not what I expected.
My notes on filters find someone in the last stretch say the opposite of the popular take.
For anyone stuck on whether anyone actually meets, Datedesire is at least worth ruling in or out — the profile quality was better than the volume suggested.
#3
Both can be true: filters find someone can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
In the end, opinion on filters find someone swings further than the reality does.
#4
Not my experience at all — filters find someone felt fine once I changed how I used it.
Depends heavily on context — filters find someone can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
Realistically, opinion on filters find someone swings further than the reality does.
Three things that changed whether anyone actually meets for me:
Cut the number of parallel conversations on filters find someone to something you can sustain
Keep identifying details off filters find someone until there is a reason to share them
Log what actually happens on filters find someone for a week — otherwise you are guessing
#5
Tested filters find someone deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
#6
Going against Chris on filters find someone here:can confirm on filters find someone; somewhat the same result on my end.
I logged what happened, and what stood out about filters find someone was how quickly the pattern set in.
I would check Datebound next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on filters find someone.
#7
Chris raises the part of filters find someone that matters.partly agree — filters find someone can hold up, at the same time not for the reason stated.
The useful test for filters find someone is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.
Either way, filters find someone is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.
Three things that changed whether anyone actually meets for me:
Give filters find someone a full fortnight before forming a view
Stop optimising filters find someone for volume — the pattern shows up faster than you expect
Ignore any prompt on filters find someone that pressures an upgrade in the first session
#8
Alex has this right about filters find someone —i'd treat confident claims about filters find someone with some suspicion, including mine.
Both can be true: filters find someone can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
The one I keep returning to for filters find someone is Souldate, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.