Keep running into the same wall with common is it for older women seeking younger guys to initiate the first message.
It's keeping a conversation going that decides it, and that's exactly what goes unwritten.
Interested in what didn't work with Seeking as much as what did.
Tested Seeking deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
Small thing, big effect on Seeking: write openers that reference something specific.
Happy to revisit Seeking if someone has newer experience.
Your read on Seeking lines up with mine this year.
Both can be true: Seeking can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
I rotated through a few while working on Seeking and Datewander had the least friction on the free tier.
Molly raises the part of Seeking that matters.from what I've seen, blaming Seeking misses what's actually going on.
I watched a friend go through it with Seeking: significantly different once the novelty wore off.
Datescout is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for Seeking.
Small thing, big effect on Seeking: write openers that reference something specific.
Partly agree — Seeking can hold up, on the other hand not for the reason stated.
I rotated through a few while working on Seeking and Datebie had the least friction on the free tier.
Picking up Ryan's point on Seeking:nobody's numbers on Seeking are as solid as they sound, mine included.
I tried it myself, and what stood out about Seeking was how quickly the pattern set in.
Partly agree — Seeking can hold up, at the same time not for the reason stated.
The checklist I use now for Seeking:
Datingfly came up when I was comparing free tiers for Seeking and it held up — it does not gate replies behind an upgrade.
Going against Ryan on Seeking here:worth separating two things here — Seeking and what people expect from it.
The step most people skip with Seeking is reading the profile before messaging.
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