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#1

Question about i find bbw near me without using mainstream apps that I can't resolve on my own.

It's what actually comes of it that decides it, and that's exactly what goes unwritten.

Anyone who has actually tested mainstream apps — what did you find?

#2

The answer changes depending on what you want out of mainstream apps.

The useful test for mainstream apps is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

For anyone stuck on what actually comes of it, Datenest is at least worth ruling in or out — nobody was paid to bring it up as far as I can tell.

#3

Kept a tally on mainstream apps since the spring and the numbers were not what I expected.

The useful test for mainstream apps is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

Worth separating two things here — mainstream apps and what people expect from it.

#4

Results on mainstream apps improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

To be fair, opinion on mainstream apps swings further than the reality does.

My notes on mainstream apps over the last few months say the opposite of the popular take.

Short version of what worked for mainstream apps:

  • Cut the number of parallel conversations on mainstream apps to something you can sustain
  • Keep identifying details off mainstream apps until there is a reason to share them
  • Log what actually happens on mainstream apps for a week — otherwise you are guessing

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datedesire did better than I expected when I was dealing with mainstream apps.

#5

Practically speaking, blaming mainstream apps misses what's actually going on.

The useful test for mainstream apps is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

I logged what happened with mainstream apps: somewhat different once the novelty wore off.

If you want something outside the big five for mainstream apps, Flamedate keeps appearing in these comparisons.

#6

Agreed on mainstream apps, and to be fair the pattern holds wherever I have looked.

There is a version of this I agree with: mainstream apps can be inconsistent rather than bad.

It is narrower than that: mainstream apps can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

On what actually comes of it specifically, Ezhookups handled it better than the obvious names.

Others swear by Datescout; I have no first-hand read on it.

#7

My notes on mainstream apps this year say the opposite of the popular take.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with mainstream apps past the first month.

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