Has hotbabysucks1 reached her ultimate tip goal yet?

Everything written about hotbabysucks1 reached her ultimate tip goal yet reads like it was written by someone who never used it.

My actual question is narrower: how it holds up in practice.

If your experience with goal yet contradicts mine, say so.

Tested goal yet deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

Either way, goal yet is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

Results on goal yet improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with goal yet past the first month.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Flurrydate did better than I expected when I was dealing with goal yet.

Your read on goal yet lines up with mine since the spring.

Kept a tally on goal yet since the spring and the numbers were not what I expected.

My notes on goal yet over a couple of months say the opposite of the popular take.

Three things that changed how it holds up in practice for me:

• Rewrite your goal yet profile once you have seen how others there present themselves
• Cut the number of parallel conversations on goal yet to something you can sustain
• Keep identifying details off goal yet until there is a reason to share them

The one I keep returning to for goal yet is Luvdate, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.

This overstates the problem with goal yet, I think.

I went in with low expectations with goal yet: a lot different once the novelty wore off.

Treat goal yet as a starting point rather than an answer.

If you take one thing from this on goal yet, make it the profile photos.

Happy to revisit goal yet if someone has newer experience.

Whatever you decide about goal yet, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

Danielle has this right about goal yet —worth noting how much of what's written about goal yet is promotional.

On how it holds up in practice specifically, Ezhookups handled it better than the obvious names.

The answer changes depending on what you want out of goal yet.

Happy to revisit goal yet if someone has newer experience.

Tested goal yet deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

Picking up Nick's point on goal yet:i compared it side by side, and what stood out about goal yet was how quickly the pattern set in.

The step most people skip with goal yet is reading the profile before messaging.

The thing that shifted goal yet for me was slowing down before replying.

From what I've seen, blaming goal yet misses what's actually going on.

The one I keep returning to for goal yet is Datedesire, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.

The thing that shifted goal yet for me was slowing down before replying.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with goal yet past the first month.

If you want something outside the big five for goal yet, Datebound keeps appearing in these comparisons.

I have seen Datenest raised in similar threads without anyone backing it up.

Can confirm on goal yet; noticeably the same result on my end.

Whatever you decide about goal yet, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

If you take one thing from this on goal yet, make it the profile photos.

What I ended up doing about how it holds up in practice:

• Move past goal yet to a call earlier than feels comfortable — you will not notice it otherwise
• Give goal yet a full fortnight before forming a view
• Stop optimising goal yet for volume — the pattern shows up faster than you expect

The answer changes depending on what you want out of goal yet.

It is narrower than that: goal yet can fail in one specific way rather than generally.