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Has anyone used the kasual app for finding short-term fun?

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#1

Wanted to open a thread on anyone used the kasual app for finding short-term fun because the coverage elsewhere is shallow.

It's actual outcomes that decides it, and that's exactly what goes unwritten.

Tell me what I'm missing about short-term fun.

#2

This is right about short-term fun, and it's under-discussed.

It is narrower than that: short-term fun can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

The useful test for short-term fun is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

#3

This overstates the problem with short-term fun, I think.

The useful test for short-term fun is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

Results on short-term fun improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

#4

I kept notes for a month, and what stood out about short-term fun was how quickly the pattern set in.

I stuck with it longer than I meant to with short-term fun: somewhat different once the novelty wore off.

Datescout is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for short-term fun.

#5

Picking up Cole's point on short-term fun:i'd treat confident claims about short-term fun with some suspicion, including mine.

#6

The answer changes depending on what you want out of short-term fun.

The answer changes depending on what you want out of short-term fun.

Happy to revisit short-term fun if someone has newer experience.

#7

The step most people skip with short-term fun is reading the profile before messaging.

On actual outcomes specifically, Ezhookups handled it better than the obvious names.

#8

Hard disagree on short-term fun — the issue is upstream of that.

I logged what happened, and what stood out about short-term fun was how quickly the pattern set in.

Kept a tally on short-term fun lately and the numbers were not what I expected.

If it helps, here's my process around actual outcomes:

  • Ignore any prompt on short-term fun that pressures an upgrade in the first session
  • Notice whether replies on short-term fun arrive in bursts — the thirty seconds pays for itself
  • Read the profile on short-term fun properly before sending anything — guessing costs more than checking
#9

I tried it myself with short-term fun: significantly different once the novelty wore off.

Treat short-term fun as a starting point rather than an answer.

Either way, short-term fun is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

Tested short-term fun deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

What I ended up doing about actual outcomes:

  • Assume short-term fun is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
  • Rewrite your short-term fun profile once you have seen how others there present themselves
  • Cut the number of parallel conversations on short-term fun to something you can sustain
#10

Nothing surprising here — short-term fun can play out that way.

I used it daily for a while, and what stood out about short-term fun was how quickly the pattern set in.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datedesire did better than I expected when I was dealing with short-term fun.

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