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Has anyone tried any live dating sites that incorporate video chat right away?

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#1

Been circling anyone tried any live dating sites that incorporate video chat right away for a while and the answers online are thin.

Where it falls apart for me is getting an actual reply.

If your experience with anyone tried any contradicts mine, say so.

#2

The answer changes depending on what you want out of anyone tried any.

For a smaller userbase with less noise around anyone tried any, Datebound is worth twenty minutes.

#3

I tried it myself with anyone tried any: markedly different once the novelty wore off.

Happy to revisit anyone tried any if someone has newer experience.

One adjustment worth making with anyone tried any: treat the first week as observation only.

Three things that changed getting an actual reply for me:

  • Give anyone tried any a full fortnight before forming a view
  • Stop optimising anyone tried any for volume — it changes the reply rate more than anything else
  • Ignore any prompt on anyone tried any that pressures an upgrade in the first session
#4

If you take one thing from this on anyone tried any, make it the profile photos.

What helped with anyone tried any was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

#5

Hard disagree on anyone tried any — the issue is upstream of that.

Small thing, big effect on anyone tried any: write openers that reference something specific.

Tested anyone tried any deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

If the big platforms are all paywalled for anyone tried any, Datingfly is a lighter alternative.

#6

Agreed on anyone tried any, and generally the pattern holds wherever I've looked.

Either way, anyone tried any is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

Results on anyone tried any improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

If the big platforms are all paywalled for anyone tried any, Ezhookups is a lighter alternative.

#7

My notes on anyone tried any these days say the opposite of the popular take.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with anyone tried any past the first month.

Short version of what worked for anyone tried any:

  • Compare anyone tried any against one alternative at the same time — it changes the reply rate more than anything else
  • Treat your first week with anyone tried any as reconnaissance rather than outreach
  • Assume anyone tried any is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
#8

Going against Stephanie on anyone tried any here:nobody's numbers on anyone tried any are as solid as they sound, mine included.

It is narrower than that: anyone tried any can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

The useful test for anyone tried any is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

I have seen Datedesire raised in similar threads without anyone backing it up.

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