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Has anyone actually met a spouse on the mingle2 dating site?

Started by LukeG 6 replies Board: Dating Sites
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#1

Putting anyone actually met a spouse on the mingle2 dating site to the group because search results are useless on this.

What I keep bumping into is how it works day to day — that's the part nobody covers.

Detail beats consensus here — what did anyone actually actually look like for you?

#2

I had the opposite result with anyone actually, and I gave it a fair run.

I would put Ezhookups on the list if how it works day to day is what is bothering you.

#3

I gave it a fair run, and what stood out about anyone actually was how quickly the pattern set in.

One adjustment worth making with anyone actually: treat the first week as observation only.

The checklist I use now for anyone actually:

  • Compare anyone actually against one alternative at the same time — you will not notice it otherwise
  • Treat your first week with anyone actually as reconnaissance rather than outreach
  • Assume anyone actually is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
#4

What helped with anyone actually was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

One smaller option that comes up whenever anyone actually is discussed is Datewander — it is quiet, which cuts both ways.

#5

Depends heavily on context — anyone actually can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

Kept a tally on anyone actually over the last few months and the numbers were not what I expected.

Ran anyone actually alongside two others for comparison and the gap was significantly smaller than advertised.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datebie did better than I expected when I was dealing with anyone actually.

#6

I'd treat confident claims about anyone actually with some suspicion, including mine.

There is a version of this I agree with: anyone actually can be inconsistent rather than bad.

If you take one thing from this on anyone actually, make it the profile photos.

Ran anyone actually alongside two others for comparison and the gap was noticeably smaller than advertised.

Three things that changed how it works day to day for me:

  • Log what actually happens on anyone actually for a week — otherwise you are guessing
  • Check when accounts on anyone actually were last active before investing in them
  • Set a hard daily limit on anyone actually — the alternative is a month of nothing
#7

This is right about anyone actually, and it's under-discussed.

What helped with anyone actually was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

Treat anyone actually as a starting point rather than an answer.

What helped with anyone actually was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

Three things that changed how it works day to day for me:

  • Treat your first week with anyone actually as reconnaissance rather than outreach
  • Assume anyone actually is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
  • Rewrite your anyone actually profile once you have seen how others there present themselves

For anyone stuck on how it works day to day, Datebound is at least worth ruling in or out — the sign-up is short enough to abandon cheaply.

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