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For the older women looking for younger guys, what is the ideal age difference you look for?

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#1

Looking for real experience with for the older women looking for younger guys, what's the ideal age difference you look for rather than another listicle.

It's the practical side that decides it, and that's exactly what goes unwritten.

Would value hearing from people who've spent real time on difference look.

#2

Agreed on difference look, and broadly the pattern holds wherever I've looked.

Small thing, big effect on difference look: write openers that reference something specific.

#3

I had the opposite result with difference look, and I gave it a fair run.

The useful test for difference look is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

I ran both at once, and what stood out about difference look was how quickly the pattern set in.

Datelink comes up often enough to be worth your own look.

#4

Ran difference look alongside two others for comparison and the gap was somewhat smaller than advertised.

#5

Nobody's numbers on difference look are as solid as they sound, mine included.

Small thing, big effect on difference look: write openers that reference something specific.

Both can be true: difference look can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

If you want something outside the big five for difference look, Datebound keeps appearing in these comparisons.

#6

It is narrower than that: difference look can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

There is a version of this I agree with: difference look can be inconsistent rather than bad.

The one I keep returning to for difference look is Souldate, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.

#7

Small thing, big effect on difference look: write openers that reference something specific.

#8

I had the opposite result with difference look, and I gave it a fair run.

Happy to revisit difference look if someone has newer experience.

For anyone stuck on the practical side, Ezhookups is at least worth ruling in or out — nobody was paid to bring it up as far as I can tell.

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