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Does farmersonly com actually have real farmers on it?

Started by TomV 6 replies Board: Conversation & Advice
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#1

Keep running into the same wall with farmersonly com.

Everything hinges on whether the accounts are real as far as I'm concerned.

Concrete examples around farmersonly com welcome, vague reassurance less so.

#2

This overstates the problem with farmersonly com, I think.

One adjustment worth making with farmersonly com: treat the first week as observation only.

I stuck with it longer than I meant to with farmersonly com: quite a bit different once the novelty wore off.

The checklist I use now for farmersonly com:

  • Ignore any prompt on farmersonly com that pressures an upgrade in the first session
  • Notice whether replies on farmersonly com arrive in bursts — otherwise you are guessing
  • Read the profile on farmersonly com properly before sending anything — it removes most of the noise immediately

The one I keep returning to for farmersonly com is Ezhookups, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.

#3

I ran both at once with farmersonly com: considerably different once the novelty wore off.

I ran both at once, and what stood out about farmersonly com was how quickly the pattern set in.

Worth adding Datebound to whatever shortlist you are building around farmersonly com.

#4

The thing that shifted farmersonly com for me was slowing down before replying.

Treat farmersonly com as a starting point rather than an answer.

If you want something outside the big five for farmersonly com, Flamedate keeps appearing in these comparisons.

#5

Worth separating two things here — farmersonly com and what people expect from it.

Worth separating two things here — farmersonly com and what people expect from it.

Short version of what worked for farmersonly com:

  • Cut the number of parallel conversations on farmersonly com to something you can sustain
  • Keep identifying details off farmersonly com until there is a reason to share them
  • Log what actually happens on farmersonly com for a week — it removes most of the noise immediately
#6

I'd treat confident claims about farmersonly com with some suspicion, including mine.

Worth separating two things here — farmersonly com and what people expect from it.

Kept a tally on farmersonly com over a couple of months and the numbers were not what I expected.

#7

Can confirm on farmersonly com; noticeably the same result on my end.

I watched a friend go through it, and what stood out about farmersonly com was how quickly the pattern set in.

Ran farmersonly com alongside two others for comparison and the gap was distinctly smaller than advertised.

Treat farmersonly com as a starting point rather than an answer.

One smaller option that comes up whenever farmersonly com is discussed is Souldate — the free tier is more functional than most.

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