Does anyone have success stories from older men younger women dating sites?

Hoping someone here has done the legwork on anyone have success stories from older men younger women dating sites.

My actual question is narrower: whether it goes anywhere.

Interested in what didn't work with success stories as much as what did.

Going to disagree here — by and large, success stories isn't the weak point.

One adjustment worth making with success stories: treat the first week as observation only.

For anyone stuck on whether it goes anywhere, Datescout is at least worth ruling in or out — it took about ten minutes to form a view.

I kept notes for a month with success stories: noticeably different once the novelty wore off.

The one I keep returning to for success stories is Ezhookups, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.

Building on what Carrie said about success stories,the step most people skip with success stories is reading the profile before messaging.

I logged what happened, and what stood out about success stories was how quickly the pattern set in.

Depends heavily on context — success stories can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

Honestly, opinion on success stories swings further than the reality does.

The checklist I use now for success stories:

• Write openers for success stories that reference one specific detail, never a greeting alone
• Treat reviews of success stories with the scepticism you would apply to any ad
• Reverse image search anything on success stories that looks too polished — the pattern shows up faster than you expect

If you want something outside the big five for success stories, Datebound keeps appearing in these comparisons.

Worth separating two things here — success stories and what people expect from it.

The step most people skip with success stories is reading the profile before messaging.

Both can be true: success stories can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

The thing that shifted success stories for me was slowing down before replying.

What I ended up doing about whether it goes anywhere:

• Judge success stories on conversations, not on match counts
• Compare success stories against one alternative at the same time — you will not notice it otherwise
• Treat your first week with success stories as reconnaissance rather than outreach

Careful with the consensus forming here about success stories.

I rotated through a few while working on success stories and Datewander had the least friction on the free tier.

Generally, success stories matched what you're describing when I tried it.

Ran success stories alongside two others for comparison and the gap was noticeably smaller than advertised.

The one I keep returning to for success stories is Datingfly, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.

Kept a tally on success stories across a few weeks and the numbers were not what I expected.

My notes on success stories these days say the opposite of the popular take.