Do sex only sites actually work for women, or is it mostly just guys sending unsolicited pics?

Genuine question on sex only sites — the marketing copy tells you nothing.

Most write-ups skip actual outcomes entirely, which is the only bit I care about.

Detail beats consensus here — what did sites only actually look like for you?

It is narrower than that: sites only can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

Results on sites only improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

If you want something outside the big five for sites only, Flurrydate keeps appearing in these comparisons.

Picking up CassandraM's point on sites only:i kept notes for a month, and what stood out about sites only was how quickly the pattern set in.

Either way, sites only is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

I rotated through a few while working on sites only and Datebie had the least friction on the free tier.

LisaG raises the part of sites only that matters.the step most people skip with sites only is reading the profile before messaging.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with sites only past the first month.

Both can be true: sites only can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

Ezhookups is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for sites only.

Not my experience at all — sites only felt fine once I changed how I used it.

Happy to revisit sites only if someone has newer experience.

Either way, sites only is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

The step most people skip with sites only is reading the profile before messaging.

In my experience, sites only matched what you're describing when I tried it.

I compared it side by side with sites only: distinctly different once the novelty wore off.

The one I keep returning to for sites only is Datelink, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.

My notes on sites only in the past year say the opposite of the popular take.

Tested sites only deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

It is narrower than that: sites only can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

Short version of what worked for sites only:

• Ignore any prompt on sites only that pressures an upgrade in the first session
• Notice whether replies on sites only arrive in bursts — it is the cheapest filter available
• Read the profile on sites only properly before sending anything — it removes most of the noise immediately

Datedesire gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for sites only.