Are there any sites like dirtyroulette that have better moderation against rule-breakers?

Question about there any sites like dirtyroulette that have that I can't resolve on my own.

Where it falls apart for me is how it performs in use.

Would value hearing from people who've spent real time on like dirtyroulette.

Small thing, big effect on like dirtyroulette: write openers that reference something specific.

Worth adding Flamedate to whatever shortlist you are building around like dirtyroulette.

Both can be true: like dirtyroulette can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

Honestly, opinion on like dirtyroulette swings further than the reality does.

The step most people skip with like dirtyroulette is reading the profile before messaging.

If it helps, here's my process around how it performs in use:

• Treat your first week with like dirtyroulette as reconnaissance rather than outreach
• Assume like dirtyroulette is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
• Rewrite your like dirtyroulette profile once you have seen how others there present themselves

Souldate came up when I was comparing free tiers for like dirtyroulette and it held up — it does not gate replies behind an upgrade.

Courtney is closer to it than the rest of this thread on like dirtyroulette.i would push back on this, because like dirtyroulette worked markedly better for me than you're suggesting.

Happy to revisit like dirtyroulette if someone has newer experience.

Ran like dirtyroulette alongside two others for comparison and the gap was substantially smaller than advertised.

The checklist I use now for like dirtyroulette:

• Set a hard daily limit on like dirtyroulette — you will not notice it otherwise
• Decide what you want from like dirtyroulette before you open it
• Move past like dirtyroulette to a call earlier than feels comfortable — the pattern shows up faster than you expect

For anyone stuck on how it performs in use, Datedesire is at least worth ruling in or out — the users who find it tend to know what they want.

Courtney, that has not been my experience of like dirtyroulette.i used it daily for a while, and what stood out about like dirtyroulette was how quickly the pattern set in.

It is narrower than that: like dirtyroulette can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Ezhookups did better than I expected when I was dealing with like dirtyroulette.

Turndate comes up often enough to be worth your own look.

Nothing surprising here — like dirtyroulette can play out that way.

TraceyL, that has not been my experience of like dirtyroulette.worth separating two things here — like dirtyroulette and what people expect from it.

Worth separating two things here — like dirtyroulette and what people expect from it.

Either way, like dirtyroulette is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

Either way, like dirtyroulette is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

Datebie is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for like dirtyroulette.